real friendship, delivered to your mailbox

Get a pen pal for life, everything you need to start writing, and mail from me that isn’t a bill.

Apply to join a vetted community of Christian women who write real letters.

The 7 Letters Club.

in case you forget about . . . you

You are doing everything right, and still somehow forgetting that God is good. You are pouring out constantly . . . for your husband, for your kids, for your church, for everyone . . . You might be running at maximum capacity right now. Constantly giving. Constantly pouring. Managing everything and everyone around you while quietly wondering if anyone genuinely sees the weight you are carrying.

And when you go "escape", you find that you are actually really tired of social media and the constant digital noise.

You do not need another group chat. You are not broken. You are not failing. You were just never designed to carry this much alone.

You need to sit down, pick up a pen, and write.

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what is the 7 Letters Club?

The 7 Letters Club is a vetted, pen pal world for women interested in letter-writing.

EVERYTHING YOU GET WHEN YOU JOIN

A pen pal for life. A woman matched with care who wants to write back. Keep writing as long as you both want.
Your letter kit for your first 3 letters, so nothing stands between you and the first sentence
- Designed stationery
- envelopes
- Forever stamps
Prompts for every letter. Scripture-grounded prompts that take you from “nice to meet you” to “I trust you with the real stuff.” You never have to wonder what to say.
Two mailed in case you forget newsletters because you deserve something other than bills in your mailbox. A printed newsletter from me, plus something fun like stickers, bookmarks, art print, a Bible Word Search or other fun surprise, delivered twice over your 4 months. Each one also includes one more letter set (sheet, envelope, and stamp) so you can keep writing.
Seven letters in your first season. Seven is the number of completion in Scripture, so your first season is built around seven letters: 3 from your kit, 2 from me, and 2 more from your mailings.

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i'm ready to get my letters

how does it work?

Take the quiz and apply.
Send your first letter so we know you’re here to write.
Get approved and join.
Your kit arrives with your pen pal’s name and address.

A letter takes about 20 minutes. No scrolling, no group chat, no live calls.

No hidden fees. At the end of your 4 months, you choose whether you want to renew your membership and keep going with a new group of women. Renewing brings a new letter kit for your lifelong pen pal and two more newsletters.

Your privacy is sacred to us. We have an application process to vet our members. We want this to be a safe experience for everyone writing each other letters. Addresses are kept on a secure, encrypted system and are only ever shared with your verified, matching prayer and letter sisters. Read our Community Guidelines and Membership Policies here.

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$69 for your first 4 months

Enrollment opens

Thursday, January 18-24, 2027.

Spots are limited.

frequently asked questions

What is a pen pal?
A pen pal is someone you build a friendship with through letters, real, handwritten letters, sent the old-fashioned way. It's not about fast replies or perfect timing. It's about taking the time to put your thoughts on paper and sending them to someone who's doing the same for you.

Is having a pen pal still a thing?
Yes, and it's making a real comeback. In a world of texts, DMs, and scrolling, more and more people are craving something slower and more intentional. A handwritten letter says "I thought about you long enough to write this down," and that kind of attention is rare right now.

Can you have a pen pal as an adult?
Absolutely! In fact, adulthood is often when we need it most. Pen pals aren't just for kids with pen pal clubs at school. As adults, we're often surrounded by people but starved for real connection. A pen pal gives you a low-pressure, judgment-free space to be known, no small talk, no performing, just honest words between two people who actually want to hear from you.

How is this different from other pen pal websites?
Most pen pal sites just match you with a stranger and leave the rest up to you like what to write, how often, whether it goes anywhere. The 7 Letters Club is guided from the very first letter: scripture-focused prompts walk you and your circle through every exchange, so you're never staring at a blank page wondering what to say. It's not a directory of names. It's abuilt around real community and real faith, not just an address exchange.

Do I have to share my home address?
Yes . . . this is a snail mail club, so mailing addresses are required. Every member agrees to our community guidelines at signup, which prohibit using addresses for anything outside of circle correspondence. We encourage you to rent a PO Box for the duration of this program to further protect your privacy if you'd like. Your privacy is sacred to us. Addresses are kept on a secure, encrypted system and are only ever shared with your verified, matching prayer and letter sisters. Read our Community Guidelines and Membership Policies here.

Can I choose my circle?
No, and that is intentional. Circles are fully randomized because the right women have a way of finding each other when we get out of the way. Trust the process.

What if I want to skip a session?
You can take a season off anytime. There is no penalty for stepping back when life requires it.

Can I gift a membership?
Yes. Select the gift option at checkout and we will ship the welcome box directly to her.

When does enrollment open?
Three times per year. Join the waitlist to be notified first.